What is DTR (Defining The Relationship)?

by Tobe Hitch October 10, 2009
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DTR (Defining the relationship), is “talking” to the guy/girl of potential romantic interest and “communicating” with them what your intent in this relationship is. Do you want to date? Do you see him/her as just a friend? DTR is a very, very important communication requirement in any relationship where the possibility of romance exists. Previous [...]

Can Guys and Girls Just Be Friends?

by Tobe Hitch October 7, 2009
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I’ve heard the stories countless amounts of times, and I’m sure you have, too. As a matter of fact, maybe you’re in one of them right now. Two naive and innocent “friends” think, believe, and hope that their gender difference will not play a part in their interaction. Yet, as a result of unguarded feelings and [...]

Why Too Much Idealism is Bad

by Tobe Hitch October 6, 2009
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Look at the picture on the left! YOU CAN’T HAVE IT ALL. If you want six packs, you gotta accept the armless man. Not literally, but metaphorically! I know a ton of people who are wayyy too idealistic in what they look for, relationship wise. Is that such a bad thing? For the purposes of [...]

The Alpha Male

by Tobe Hitch October 3, 2009
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What is the Alpha Male? The Alpha Male is that guy that every girl in a social setting passionately desires for. The Alpha Male is that guy who has stalkers up the butt, girls who text message and call him every single day in hopes of just spending one meaningful day with him. “Oh, but [...]

The Ladder Theory

by Tobe Hitch March 17, 2009
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Here’s an interesting concept in the dating world, The Ladder Theory. The ladder theory is ultimately quite simple: men have one ladder, women have two ladders. The ladder represents our willingness to “date” someone. For instance, the higher someone is on the ladder, the more likely we are to date them. The lower they are, unfortunately, [...]

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