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Are You A Heebie/Sheebie?

by Tobe Hitch October 5, 2010
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What is a heebie? What is a sheebie? Let’s start there. A heebie is a creeper. A sheebie is a “she” creeper. To break it down even more, a creeper is someone who just…kind of freaks you out a little bit. Normally, it’s not overt. I mean, yes, once in a while you meet those [...]

6 Month Bump, 1 Year Hump, 2 Year Done

by Tobe Hitch October 3, 2010
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Today we’re going to do a bit of discussion on the six month to two year relationship. When I evaluate my relationships, my friend’s relationships, and my sister’s relationships I notice a pretty common trend: 6 month bump, 1 year hump (and no I’m not making a sexual reference, perverts :p), 2 year done (roughly, [...]

Some Things to Enjoy (And Not Enjoy) About Being Single

by Tobe Hitch October 2, 2010
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The life of a single person is great. Or at least, that’s what all the single people will have you believe, anyways. It’s amazing how we’re so excellent at convincing ourselves of some truth that we want to believe. “I am having so much fun drinking this glass of wine all by myself!” says the [...]

Facebook Stalking

by Tobe Hitch September 29, 2010
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Phase 1: Gather their Information Okay. Let me start this post by stating the truth about Facebook stalking: Pretty much everyone does it! If you have a facebook account, most likely you’re a stalker. There’s no way around it because the ease and temptation is just too great. There have been so many times when [...]

Faith Palm

by Tobe Hitch May 5, 2010
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I know it’s been ages since I’ve last blogged. I’m balancing this thing called life, and it’s pretty crazy right now! ANYWAYS, in the mean time, check our my friend’s new blog: www.faithpalm.com. It’s a pretty funny blog that responds to overly zealous religious types – which, I realize, has absolutely NOTHING TO DO WITH RELATIONSHIPS. [...]

How to Get a Guy to Like You

by Tobe Hitch October 29, 2009
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Ever wonder how to get a guy to like you? This is important for a girl to know because recent studies have shown that almost 80% of relationships are in some way/shape/form initiated by the girl and NOT the guy. I know that sounds contradictory to what people are used to thinking. Most of us [...]

Why Guys and Girls Have Difficulty Communicating

by Tobe Hitch October 22, 2009
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One of my friends recently directed me to this very fascinating google phenomenon that is absolutely hilarious. As everyone who uses google regularly knows, based on what you start typing in the search bar, google will “anticipate” what the rest of your statement will be in accordance with popular search topics that contain your proposed [...]

Case Study: Email DTR

by Tobe Hitch October 13, 2009
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Recently, one of my friends had a DTR (Determining/Defining the Relationship). She, knowing that I am now officially published (and therefore basically a professional in the field of DTR hahaha), contacted me for help. So it turns out that the guy who tried to get with her is way over twenty years older than her [...]

What is DTR (Defining The Relationship)?

by Tobe Hitch October 10, 2009
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DTR (Defining the relationship), is “talking” to the guy/girl of potential romantic interest and “communicating” with them what your intent in this relationship is. Do you want to date? Do you see him/her as just a friend? DTR is a very, very important communication requirement in any relationship where the possibility of romance exists. Previous [...]

Can Guys and Girls Just Be Friends?

by Tobe Hitch October 7, 2009
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I’ve heard the stories countless amounts of times, and I’m sure you have, too. As a matter of fact, maybe you’re in one of them right now. Two naive and innocent “friends” think, believe, and hope that their gender difference will not play a part in their interaction. Yet, as a result of unguarded feelings and [...]

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