Popular Posts

Getting Over Hopeless Infatuations

by Tobe Hitch December 8, 2010
Thumbnail image for Getting Over Hopeless Infatuations

It sucks to be stuck in a hopeless infatuation. In a scenario like this, a person is in love with a girl or guy that he/she knows it will never work out with (or that is just bad for them), and yet this person can’t help himself/herself. This is different from the Tree Chopping Concept–with [...]

Why Nice Guys Finish Last

by Tobe Hitch November 22, 2010
Thumbnail image for Why Nice Guys Finish Last

The nice guy. You either know of one, or quite possibly you are one. It’s good to be the nice guy, and you should definitely not feel too bad about it. However, when it comes to dating, the nice guy really does finish last. And I know that a lot of girls out there protest [...]

The Tree Chopping Strategy

by Tobe Hitch October 13, 2010
Thumbnail image for The Tree Chopping Strategy

Can you hear the lumberjack endlessly hacking away at a stubborn tree, desperately hoping that the hours and hours and hours of labor he puts into trying to bring the tree down will finally pay off? Sometimes, the determination works. Most of the times, he has no other option except to give up on the [...]

Are You A Heebie/Sheebie?

by Tobe Hitch October 5, 2010
Thumbnail image for Are You A Heebie/Sheebie?

What is a heebie? What is a sheebie? Let’s start there. A heebie is a creeper. A sheebie is a “she” creeper. To break it down even more, a creeper is someone who just…kind of freaks you out a little bit. Normally, it’s not overt. I mean, yes, once in a while you meet those [...]

6 Month Bump, 1 Year Hump, 2 Year Done

by Tobe Hitch October 3, 2010
Thumbnail image for 6 Month Bump, 1 Year Hump, 2 Year Done

Today we’re going to do a bit of discussion on the six month to two year relationship. When I evaluate my relationships, my friend’s relationships, and my sister’s relationships I notice a pretty common trend: 6 month bump, 1 year hump (and no I’m not making a sexual reference, perverts :p), 2 year done (roughly, [...]

Facebook Stalking

by Tobe Hitch September 29, 2010
Thumbnail image for Facebook Stalking

Phase 1: Gather their Information Okay. Let me start this post by stating the truth about Facebook stalking: Pretty much everyone does it! If you have a facebook account, most likely you’re a stalker. There’s no way around it because the ease and temptation is just too great. There have been so many times when [...]

Why Guys and Girls Have Difficulty Communicating

by Tobe Hitch October 22, 2009
Thumbnail image for Why Guys and Girls Have Difficulty Communicating

One of my friends recently directed me to this very fascinating google phenomenon that is absolutely hilarious. As everyone who uses google regularly knows, based on what you start typing in the search bar, google will “anticipate” what the rest of your statement will be in accordance with popular search topics that contain your proposed [...]

What is DTR (Defining The Relationship)?

by Tobe Hitch October 10, 2009
Thumbnail image for What is DTR (Defining The Relationship)?

DTR (Defining the relationship), is “talking” to the guy/girl of potential romantic interest and “communicating” with them what your intent in this relationship is. Do you want to date? Do you see him/her as just a friend? DTR is a very, very important communication requirement in any relationship where the possibility of romance exists. Previous [...]

The Alpha Male

by Tobe Hitch October 3, 2009
Thumbnail image for The Alpha Male

What is the Alpha Male? The Alpha Male is that guy that every girl in a social setting passionately desires for. The Alpha Male is that guy who has stalkers up the butt, girls who text message and call him every single day in hopes of just spending one meaningful day with him. “Oh, but [...]

The Ladder Theory

by Tobe Hitch March 17, 2009
Thumbnail image for The Ladder Theory

Here’s an interesting concept in the dating world, The Ladder Theory. The ladder theory is ultimately quite simple: men have one ladder, women have two ladders. The ladder represents our willingness to “date” someone. For instance, the higher someone is on the ladder, the more likely we are to date them. The lower they are, unfortunately, [...]