Comments on: Why Too Much Idealism is Bad

By: Gail

Gail — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 00:51:58 +0000

he did this before and made me feel like a tramp and I was talking romantically about us….he started visualizing me with many men..got turned off and didn’t want to talk to me for days..I felt so dirty about myself and cried all night and day….he apologied but also reminded me of hoe a man feels ..he misread or didn’t read my romantiuc letter close enough or he would see it was us I was talking about..I am hurting so much now..it js like all he wants to talk about is the fairy tale stuff and the perfect relationship..but If I share anything with him unpleasant he turns on me and gives m e the silent treatment….I am walking on broken glass…help ! Does he ever consider my feelings?…..or even trust me for that matter ? he can be such a loving man but I have to constantly confirm my feeling sabout him over and over…again….

By: Gail

Gail — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 00:41:54 +0000

I can’t talk about my past experiences with my man because if it is not pleasant he scold me and says things like ” don’t you ever say that to me again!” then cuts off our conversation abruptly and doesn’t speak to me for a while….then write me a letter saying that I was insensitive to his feelings as a man..etc…I was only answering his questions honestly as he always says he loves me for my honesty..
It was about a dating site I had been on years ago and left because men were being gross on there and offensive to me..so I casually told him of one incident and the rude thing this man on the site said to me and how I blocked him right way..and got off the site for years… when I told him the thing this man sai to me my man got angry and firmly and almost bossy and mean said not to ever say that o him again..then told me he was ending our conversation abruptly..I was is hurt and speechless so I said fine and hung up….he made me feel like a tramp…he even said he was turned off…I havenèt heard from him since..nit even an apology or sorry for being so harsh..I emailed him to tell him hiow hurt wha he did made me feel…

By: The Tree Chopping Strategy

The Tree Chopping Strategy — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 19:33:22 +0000

[...] I’m not necessarily COMPLETELY against settling. My post on why it’s not realistic to be too idealistic in looking for a significant other still holds true. And I do think that we ALL need to meet each [...]

By: pickywon

pickywon — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 04:39:58 +0000

i guess i should change my mindset

By: proofreader

proofreader — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 07:59:23 +0000

you misspelled heels in paragraph 5