Comments on: The Communication Chasm Theory: Why Guys and Girls Have a Hard Time Communicating in Relationships

By: Superficial

Superficial — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 04:10:05 +0000

so… if i heard your post right… “girls have to try harder to connect with guys on their superficial level” … it’s perfectly legitimate for me to ask my gf to … um… try new things?

By: crystal

crystal — Sat, 24 Oct 2009 16:05:23 +0000

oh my gosh. haha your posts are nsfw if only because i’m trying not to lol at my screen while my cubicle mate glares at me.

By: ginger

ginger — Sat, 24 Oct 2009 02:23:25 +0000

too funny….

By: Jacqueline Johns - Your Happy Life Mentor

Jacqueline Johns - Your Happy Life Mentor — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 01:33:30 +0000

You just totally burst my bubble!

As a single lady, I was REALLY hoping to find that deep emotional attachment to Mr R at some stage of my (hopefully not too distant) life. And now you go and tell me that ALL guys are shallow! And I thought it was just the ones I was meeting!

Oh well, back to the internet dating drawing board to look for someone good looking with a hot body!

Wish me luck.
Live Life Happy!

By: random schmuck

random schmuck — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 01:24:51 +0000

Or maybe settle for bronze or tin?

By: steve

steve — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 21:52:00 +0000

Why does a golden heart matter? How bout golden BICEPS? (both of which i dont have)

Would a silver heart suffice ladies?

By: JenRoh

JenRoh — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 19:52:48 +0000

lol. no problem. I understand. But I don’t think you have anything to worry about. I really liked this post. It keeps it real.

By: Pen Name

Pen Name — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 19:22:47 +0000

Thanks for helping keep me anonymous! hahahaha. I saw you changed your link back to me. appreciate it. *sigh this one was a constant back and forth of whether i should even post it. Oh well.

By: JenRoh

JenRoh — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 18:35:34 +0000

sigh, so sad, but so true…

but if i may give my humble opinion as a female… deep down most girls want to know that their guy isn’t shallow (even the very pretty ones), that he doesn’t just like her for her looks. But how can the pretty girl know if he’s not shallow since she herself is pretty?
…well for one, how does the guy treat other people who aren’t necessarily physically attractive? Unfortunately gentlemen, this is difficult to fake (at least for long). (*check out more on my blog)

my advice to the ladies: find the guy with a golden heart who genuinely treats all people with respect/kindness (and not just when you’re looking). you’ll know he’s a keeper.

haha, sorry guys, I just gave some of you away.

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