Bad Relationships: Dump the Trash

by Tobe Hitch on July 12, 2012

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I don’t know about you guys, but there are so many times when I shake my head at a relationship that I know is just horrible for either the girl or the guy. I’ve known more than my share of girls who stick around in emotionally (and possibly physically) abusive relationships even when everyone in the freaking world (including they themselves) knows that the relationship is corrosive to their lives. I’ve known more than my share of guys who stick around with girls who are (for lack of a better term) bitches, and the guys stay with them even when its obvious that it’s having a horrible effect on the guy’s life.

I’m sure you guys have known someone like this, or maybe you’re in one of these relationships. In fact, many people who comment on my blog seem to be stuck and trapped in these types of relationships. They constantly ask me this question: What am I supposed to do? Here’s my reply: (Continue…)

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Things To Consider Before Marriage

by Tobe Hitch on July 4, 2012

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It’s easy to get caught up in the world of “the perfect”. In the world of the perfect, every guy is a perfect gentleman and treats all women with respect. Men do not waste their time with frivolities (such as video games, unless, of course your idea of a perfect guy is someone who plays video games). They should work extremely hard, make tons of money, yet still manage to give 110% of himself to helping raise the kids, handling the chores around the house, and providing you with the romance and love that you need to be completely content and happy in life. Men should be at least six feet tall with chiseled abs (don’t forget this is the world of the perfect), unafraid of commitment, and…well the list goes on, and usually varies from person to person.

That’s the world of the perfect for women, anyways (or gay men). Shoot, if you found me a guy like that, I might become gay just for him. Sounds like a winner to me, and I’d be pretty down for that. The world of the perfect for men? Victoria Secret super model. Period. (Continue…)

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Mercy Kill Your Date

by Tobe Hitch January 12, 2012
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*I allowed this guest post because this girl felt authentic in asking for a guest post. Obviously, I haven’t blogged in a while. This is from Eric Whitehead. She is a writer, blogger, comedian and contributor to http://www.onlinedatingsites.net Norman Bates caught a lot of heat for what seemed like a pretty harmless hobby: Stuffing and preserving [...]

Should I Get Into a Long Distance Relationship?

by Tobe Hitch June 14, 2011
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I’ve been in two relationships that could be considered “long distance”. One of the relationships was with a girl who lived 2 hours away from me. Two hours isn’t necessarily too bad…but the fact that during this time I was a sophomore in high school and couldn’t drive made things pretty damn difficult. Kind of [...]

Developing Confidence in Approaching Relationships

by Tobe Hitch June 7, 2011
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Confidence is extremely important in any relationship. There is a profound difference between arrogance and confidence. Arrogance = douchebag status, where guys or girls think they are hot shiz but really are just annoying and socially awkward. Unless they are hot. In which case, society and I are willing to overlook a lot of major [...]

The First Date

by Tobe Hitch June 1, 2011
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I went on a handful of first dates this past year, trying to see if any of the girls had potential to stick. First dates are awkward as hell! That’s the first thing I want to say right off the bat. How do you interact with someone who (for the most part) you’ve never met? Let [...]

Online Dating

by Tobe Hitch December 17, 2010
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The subject of online dating is the brunt end of many jokes. I, myself, have been very liberal about lashing out (half jokingly) against sites like E-harmony, Match.com, or dateacougar.com…although, admittedly, finding a rich cougar to go out with sounds…pretty damn awesome the more and more I think about it. Why is this such a [...]

Why You Should Go On Blind Dates

by Tina Lemon December 10, 2010
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This is a guest post from Tina Lemon. ENJOY! The set-up gets a bad rap.  It sits just under browsing personal ads on craigslist and events like Speed Dating for Cougars in the “I’d rather be single than do any of these loser activities to score a date” hierarchy. But let me tell you something, people, [...]

Getting Over Hopeless Infatuations

by Tobe Hitch December 8, 2010
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It sucks to be stuck in a hopeless infatuation. In a scenario like this, a person is in love with a girl or guy that he/she knows it will never work out with (or that is just bad for them), and yet this person can’t help himself/herself. This is different from the Tree Chopping Concept–with [...]

Deal Breakers in Relationships

by Tobe Hitch December 1, 2010
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Let’s say that you’re going out on a date with a girl, and well, things are going pretty well. You guys are laughing, enjoying each other’s company, and the food is delicious. During the course of this awesomeness, you excuse yourself to go to the bathroom, and while you’re taking a pee in the urinal, [...]

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